Several months ago when the latest war in the Palestinian-Israeli conflict flared up, I found myself really trying to understand both sides of the situation. To be honest, at the time I really felt that we, especially in the United States, get an entirely Israeli-slanted view of what has been happening there over the last 60+ years and I was really *angry* about that. Yes, rockets were being launched into Israel, but I believed the cause of this latest event was the Palestinians' frustration with Israel's lack of follow through on their end of the then-current cease-fire agreement.
So let me stop here for an asterisk. *I had only the knowledge from news reports and was mostly angry because in general, the news reporting on this subject is very pro-Israeli, and you have to figure in a conflict like this that there are two sides to every story and that both parties have been the instigators at some time during the conflict. I decided it was time for me to get educated.
I checked out the book, "The 50 Years War: Israel and the Arabs" by Ahron Bregman and Jihan El-Tahri from my local library. I chose this book because it was co-authored by an Israeli and a Palestinian, and I wanted as much of an unbiased opinion in my first read as I possibly could. The book did not disappoint, and it left me wanting more (I read the first edition which ended ~1998, and obviously a lot has happened since then).
What did this book give me? It provided a foundational understanding of the beginnings of the conflict and went into details on why full resolution has still been so difficult to reach. It also went through the details of not just trials at peace between Israel and Palestine, but also with Egypt, Syria, and Jordan. I suppose I had not paid that much attention to this part of the world as a child, because much of what I read was like a vague memory but I never really understood the intertwining of all of the peace processes (and meddlings of other countries in those peace processes) until now.
I have always conceptually understood that for many parts of the world, conflict continues for generations because people are unwilling to forgive and forget. For me, this is one of the root causes for the continuation of war between Israel and the Palestinians. It is very difficult to negotiate peace when both sides start off "negotiations" with recounts of past atrocities and fights.
The book also left me with a hunger to learn more. I have found Jimmy Carter's approach to the Israeli-Palestinian conflict well thought out and pragmatic. I think he is one of the few people in influential positions in the U.S. who understands that having a dogmatic and blind approval for all things Israel is hurtful to the peace process and also underminds concessions from Arab countries and Arab groups.
This is obviously not a black and white situation. I am not "for" or "against" any one side, but I realize after starting down this educational journey that Israeli-Palestinian peace is a must for stability in the world, not just in the Middle East, and that both sides (and numerous other countries) are at fault for where we are today. I am ready for the Palestinians to resolve their internal differences and for a brave and forward thinking Palestinian and Israeli leader to step up to the plate and say, "enough is enough" (and do that at the same time). I am not convinced this will happen in my lifetime, but I can certainly hope.